Dirty Fling

Dirty fling refers to a online friendship with sexual benefits, but there is no actual relationship in reality. It doesn't have to involve physical intimacy or getting attached to the other person.

Details on Dirty Fling

It can be in the form of sending sex chats online to women or men you know or those on casual sex online platforms. Dating fling is a great way to pass the time, especially for those with tight working schedules or those who are not ready to start dating. It is more like flirting with someone who has similar interests, fantasies, fetishes, and preferences for sexual pleasure or arousal. Having the right headspace is essential for this to work. This situation requires communication and respecting each other's wants and needs. The focus is not having a life together.

Benefits of dirty fling

Dirty fling is similar to friends with benefits online. It involves identifying someone open to sharing with you physical intimacy details either through a call or chat. However, most people are more comfortable sexting because they get to express all their desires and fantasies. It is a fun experience where you share intimate details and sessions with someone who respects you and is ready to sex chat without the commitment that comes with have an exclusive significant other. Below are some benefits of dirty fling.

1. More sustainable compared to relationships

It is surprising to know that most people have more extended contact through casual fling than actual relationships. You can decide when to chat or interact with the other person at your convenience. It relieves the pressure that comes with dating that requires constant communication. It can last for many years because you don't have to be physically intimate with the other person.

2.Allows you to be open about what you need

It is uncommon for most people to share their craziest or weirdest sexual fantasies or fetishes with their significant other out of respect, discomfort, or insecurity. However, this platform offers you a chance to speak out your desires with someone who shares similar preferences. You can chat and ask and share ideas without being judged and explore your wild side of sexuality. The advantage is that you can choose to speak with multiple individuals.

3. No physical meetings, which translates to no emotional attachments

People who are not ready to date can be mentally and physically drained getting into a relationship just to get sexual satisfaction. Sexual flings allows you to chat and talk and still feel comfortable communicating again after a week without feeling guilty. You don't have to engage in sexual acts but participate in video calls and messages online to meet all your sexual needs.

4. You are free to do what you want with your time

Being in a committed relationship takes time when one is busy. It may be impossible to make it work because you need to dedicate your time. But this does not mean that you avoid your sexual needs altogether. Dirty fling is ideal for those with busy lives because you get to interact with someone who understands your schedule, doesn't have demands, and enjoys your company.

Characteristics of an Excellent Dirty Fling

When looking for someone to talk to about your sexual fantasies, there are specific characteristics that you need to keep in mind to make the entire process comfortable and exciting. They are;

1. Strict compartmentalization

You should choose someone who is not from your neighborhood. Identify one from a place you would not want to visit or live. Remaining anonymous is key to a successful, adventurous, and erotic dirty fling. It is much easier to open up about your fetishes and needs to a stranger. You are confident you will not have any physical interactions at any time or place.

2. Should be attracted to you but not on a level that requires commitment

Choosing someone who is good-looking and has all the necessary qualities that you desire makes dirty fling more enjoyable. Even though there is no desire to date, you want to talk to someone who is sexually attractive to get maximum fulfilment.

3.Should be respectful

One rule to abide by when it comes to flings is not performing boyfriend or girlfriend duties such as texting every morning or sending birthday cards. However, this does not mean you should act like a douchebag. Respect means that they need tolerate your behaviors and be willing to fulfil your sexual fantasies and desires without making you feel uncomfortable.

Dating fling does not require you to share details with your friends or partner. It is a great way to unwind, and no one has to know what you are doing and with whom. It is more like a vacation from reality. Ending it is easy without having to go through a heart-wrenching discussion. You have to set boundaries and ensure that the other party understands there will be no commitment.

Fling members online

OnceInaLifetime from North Tyneside,United Kingdomradio_button_checked
OnceInaLifetime
While other women are busy working out in the gym to achieve the curves that they can flaunt, I'm busy keeping my brain fit by flipping pages and having abstract thoughts. I'm the kind of a lady who'd choose a man who is into books over a man who has...
Whitley BayWhitley Bay, North Tynesidelocation_on
Female | 32 | Straight
freakyFrances from Greater London,United Kingdomradio_button_checked
freakyFrances
If you belong to the group of people who find pleasure in having sex at midnight or during early mornings because that's the quietest moment, and you're happy when you can clearly hear how loud your partner's moan is, then we're a good match. Shall w...
LondonLondon, Greater Londonlocation_on
Female | 37 | Straight
SweetBabyHarlow from Hampshire,United Kingdomradio_button_checked
SweetBabyHarlow
My libido is through the roof, and I know most of us are. There's no shame in needing to get fucked daily like one needs air or water. I feel the same way too, and I am not a shamed of admitting that. Is there anyone who desires it like I do too?
GosportGosport, Hampshirelocation_on
Female | 28 | Straight
n0thingcanst0pme from Leeds,United Kingdomradio_button_checked
n0thingcanst0pme
I am not a clingy and demanding lady who wants all of your time and attention to be devoted to me. I am also not the kind of lady who prefers being romantic. On the contrary, I am the kind of lady who prefers to be flirty, naughty, and uncommitted.
MorleyMorley, Leedslocation_on
Female | 28 | Straight
SkinnyNudeHarper from East Riding of Yorkshire,United Kingdomradio_button_checked
SkinnyNudeHarper
I have this strange feeling between my thighs that I can't shake off. I never felt this sensation before. I think years of having no sex at all is slowly making me horny and craving for a big cock. I hope someone here can give me the pleasure I have ...
NewportNewport, East Riding of Yorkshirelocation_on
Female | 22 | Straight
MesmerizingMinnie from Greater London,United Kingdomradio_button_checked
MesmerizingMinnie
Travelling is lovely. I fancy places with boho feels. It has this comfortable effect, and it makes me forget what the time is and that I'm still on Earth, not in a different dimension. I'm lucky I get to see those places.
LondonLondon, Greater Londonlocation_on
Female | 27 | Straight
just0nenaughtylass from Bedford,United Kingdomradio_button_checked
just0nenaughtylass
I learned a long time ago that I can't make everyone happy no matter how hard I try. I made peace with that thought and would often settle for being able to make them smile or lend an ear when they need to talk. Happiness from delicious sexual acts a...
BedfordBedford, Bedfordlocation_on
Female | 22 | Straight
BubblyLila from City of Derby,United Kingdomradio_button_checked
BubblyLila
I grew up reading or listening to fairytales which may explain why I had high standards when I started dating blokes. These days I just want to have a dick in my sopping quim as much as I can. Not that I lowered my standards, more of being realistic.
DerbyDerby, City of Derbylocation_on
Female | 31 | Straight
sluttysavannah from Windsor and Maidenhead,United Kingdomradio_button_checked
sluttysavannah
Having to dress up in costumes for themed events is my favourite. There are even times that I take role-playing a step further and incorporate the outfits I've accumulated over the years. I wonder who would love to discipline a naughty nurse or sinfu...
MaidenheadMaidenhead, Windsor and Maidenheadlocation_on
Female | 26 | Straight
sNeakyCara from West Lothian,United Kingdomradio_button_checked
sNeakyCara
What I love the most about chatting with strangers online is that I become overly satisfied, making me have wet dreams for consecutive nights. Another reason is that the dildoes and my fingers can take turns in giving me an awesome sex experience.
ArmadaleArmadale, West Lothianlocation_on
Female | 34 | Straight
LoonyBunny from South Ayrshire,United Kingdomradio_button_checked
LoonyBunny
I was feeling a bit bored and lonely these couple of days, so I decided to do something about it. I am looking for a man who can keep me occupied with interesting conversations. I am quite an open-minded lady. We can chat about a lot of things, and m...
AyrAyr, South Ayrshirelocation_on
Female | 54 | Straight
wantABoner from North Lanarkshire,United Kingdomradio_button_checked
wantABoner
I still go out and grab a pint at the pub every now and then, I may be old but that doesn't mean that I'm gonna coop myself up in my flat. I'd even flirt with a few blokes when they come my way too, they'd even buy me a drink or two.
CoatbridgeCoatbridge, North Lanarkshirelocation_on
Female | 60 | Straight